How to Think
Updated: Sep 22

I was asked recently what my favorite thing is. Before I knew it, “thinking” popped out of my mouth. This response first surprised me and then didn’t. One of my values is Discovery after all.
The act of thinking has always interested me- how I think, how others think, how groups think- all of it. I experiment and invest a lot of learning time in different ways of thinking and mindset development. I have practices that cultivate a curious, explorer’s mind, and I don’t allow myself to spend too much time wallowing in an obstacle or setback. I know that if I can just think differently and see differently, the ah-ha (the opportunity) will present itself.
When I was a little girl, I needed to understand how things worked. At maybe 18 months old, I sat on the kitchen floor and disassembled all of my matchbox cars. I just had to know. Unfortunately, my dad came home from work and slipped on the wheels scattered on naked axles-not the most positive ending. But it does illustrate how I still work a problem. When faced with a challenge, deconstruction is the fastest way to see the source of the issue. If you don’t know how things are working how can you possibly design something better?
I am fascinated not only by the outcomes of toying with constructs, problems, and ideas, but the thought process we utilize when doing so. Once- instead of sleeping, I painted a 7′ question mark on my bedroom wall. My mind was busy and I found the exercise and the image meditative. I gave myself permission to forget the box and let go of outcomes, to sit with the chaos in my own mind.
There are creative thinking methodologies, systems thinking processes, objective and subjective viewpoint strategies, logic exercises, critical and analytical thinking constructs, imagining practices, and illogical brainstorming. Sometimes you have to poke at something in 5 different ways to see it accurately, sometimes 10. Shifting perspective with objectivity can be a lot of fun if you can be disciplined enough to release the need for an immediate answer.
While I like to imagine that as a Master Generalist, I have a lot of skills, I know that what people come to me for… what people pay me for. It’s how I think. It is something I do that is unlike many others. I love seeing the same thing in different ways in my own mind. I love putting those things together to build something new.
If you are feeling stuck, maybe give this a try. Look at something one way, clear your mind, and then return to it with fresh eyes. Imagine you are someone else (pick a person or persona) and challenge yourself to see it the way they might. What are you missing? What can you not see from the lens of your own experience?
This in NO WAY replaces the diversity required for good solutions. It DOES NOT mitigate the need for perspective speaking behaviors. What it DOES do is allow you to ask good questions, to play devil’s advocate, and to see and understand the viewpoints of others with less judgment. It enables you to show up prepared to work.
This matters. It matters more now than it ever did, but it has always been important. A thing is always impossible until it isn’t. If innovation, creativity, and the catalysts that unleash these things are now name of the game (and yep, they are) start cultivating this in yourself now. Do you want to lead? Get really good at this. It will empower you to see people in new ways. It will enable you to activate their potential.
Ideas for getting started…
If you find yourself reacting strongly in a meeting or interaction, pause and ask yourself why before responding. Then, ask a question instead of making a comment. Get curious.
Feeling stuck? Stop and clear your mind. Go for a walk. Do 50 jumping jacks. Move.
At an impasse? Pretend you are someone else and start from the beginning. Be sure to recognize when you shift back to your way of thinking. Challenge your thought process.
Read. Learn. Engage with content you disagree with. Listen. Side note… How to Think Like Leonardo Da Vinci by Michael J. Gelb is an interesting read.
Meditate. No, you don’t have to sit in lotus and practice loving kindness (though I would strongly recommend giving it a shot). Maybe try walking or running meditations, even swimming, or creative time, or time in the yard. The how doesn’t matter - what matters is creating a practice of centering yourself and finding stillness. In our distracted world this is so hard. Find your peace. Don’t let emotions drive the bus, use them as valuable inputs.
The long and the short is that there are as many ways to diversify your capability in How to Think as there are people in the world. The amazing thing is that the output of expanding perspective within ourselves drives outcomes that support our ability to create belonging. Belonging and refusing the pull toward homogenized groups (and of course, psychological safety) stops group-think in its tracks. We come up with better solutions and we invest less in the emotions that get in the way of our ability to change.
If we want to create a better future, we need to build the skills now that will allow us to imagine something different. Just try. Think about how you think. Yeah- it’s a practice, it’s work. But, it is a practice that over time will transform you. It will allow your best to shine through. You become the catalyst for others.
Good ideas are catching. The inspiration that comes from methodically making them better is downright contagious.
annewinn.com blog | Originally posted on July 14, 2022 | Photo by Juan Rumimpunu on Unsplash
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